gtgparenting Building relationship, Encouraging kids, Independence, Parenting strategies, Rules and routines

Self-reliant kids do better | how to do less so your kids can do more

Are your kids self-reliant or do you think you are doing too much for them? Would you like to encourage your children to become more self-reliant? A job description looks like this for many parents: Long term, energetic team player needed, for challenging permanent work in a busy and often chaotic environment. Responsibilities include cooking, … Continue reading Self-reliant kids do better | how to do less so your kids can do more

Homwork
gtgparenting Homework stress, Meltdowns, Rules and routines

Homework meltdowns – 5 things you can do

“I suck at maths!” my son shouts as he hurries away from the kitchen table and stomps down the hall. I force myself to wait in space, instead of running behind him. I notice how I hold my breath when this happens, it’s so stressful. How parents respond in this moment determines what happens next. … Continue reading Homework meltdowns – 5 things you can do

Self care is not selfish
gtgparenting Inspiration, Parent self-care, Rules and routines, Setting up for success

Getting back into gear after the holidays

So you just got used to everyone enjoying later nights and less structure and suddenly you're back into the school term, grinding it out. Transition is never seamless, no matter how well you set it up. When we're calm, engaged and focused, our kids will get the best from us. What's going to make it easier … Continue reading Getting back into gear after the holidays